LONDON — In public, they present a united front — always. But Prince Harry has a very different story to tell about the British royals and the way they operate.
Harry’s explosive memoir, with its damning allegations of a toxic relationship between the monarchy and the press, could accelerate the pace of change already under way within the House of Windsor following the death of Queen Elizabeth II.

Alastair Grant, Associated Press
Britain's then-Prince Charles, center, gestures as he sits next to his wife Camilla, Duchess of Cornwall, and his son, Prince Harry, during the opening ceremony Sept. 10, 2014, for the Invictus Games, which showcases the sporting achievements of wounded and disabled servicemen from 13 countries.
Harry’s description of royals leaking unflattering information about other members of the family in exchange for positive coverage of themselves is but one of the more tawdry allegations in his book, ” Spare,” published this week. The prince singled out King Charles III’s wife, Camilla, accusing her of feeding private conversations to the media as she sought to rehabilitate her image after her longtime affair with Charles when he was heir to the throne.
Far from the unity that is presented in public, the royal family and their staffs are depicted as scheming rivals, ready to stab each other in the back to make themselves or their bosses look better in the public eye. The palace that Harry describes resembles a modern version of the court of King Henry VIII, where courtiers jockeyed for the monarch’s favor and some lost their heads.
The book leaves the impression of a deeply dysfunctional British royal family whose members are so concerned about the tabloid press that they are forced to make deals with journalists, says Ed Owens, author of ” The Family Firm: Monarchy, Mass Media and the British Public, 1932-53.” And the public, when faced with this proposition, may think twice.
“I think there needs to be some kind of reset, and we need to think carefully about what the monarchy is, what role it plays in society,” says Owens, a historian. “Because this idea of ‘we, the British taxpayers, pay and in return they perform’ — it’s really a broken and corrupting kind of equation.”

Kin Cheung, Associated Press
Copies of the new book by Prince Harry called "Spare" are displayed Tuesday at a book store in London. His explosive memoir is likely to accelerate the pace of change already under way within the House of Windsor following the death of Queen Elizabeth II.
Largely funded by taxpayers, the monarchy plays a mostly ceremonial role in British society these days — masters of soft power. But supporters argue that the institution still serves a vital role, uniting the country behind shared history and traditions embodied in both the grandeur of royal ceremonies and the day-to-day work of royals as they open schools and hospitals and hand out honors to those who serve the nation.
News coverage of the royal family generally falls into one of two categories: carefully orchestrated public appearances or sometimes chaotic stories about the private lives of royals based on unidentified sources.
But change may be at hand.

Kirsty O’Connor, Associated Press
From left, Britain's Prince William, Kate, Princess of Wales, Prince Harry and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex wave to members of the public Sept. 10 at Windsor Castle in England after the death of Queen Elizabeth II.
The history of colonialism — so deeply intertwined with the crown — is being re-examined around the world. Protesters have torn down or defaced statues in British cities, and internationally respected universities such as Oxford and Cambridge are changing their course offerings. It all adds up to one thing: An institution that was once the symbol of the British Empire is facing scrutiny as never before.
Charles, who became king after the death of Queen Elizabeth II in September, faces the challenge of modernizing Britain’s 1,000-year-old monarchy to guarantee its survival. He has already said he plans to reduce the number of working royals and reduce the cost of the monarchy.
This has been a long time coming, perhaps, but was delayed by one key factor: Elizabeth herself.
Personal affection for the queen meant that the monarchy’s role in British society was rarely debated during her seven decades on the throne. Now that she’s gone, the royal family is confronting questions about its relevance in a modern, multicultural nation that looks very different than when Elizabeth ascended the throne in 1952.
In Elizabeth’s world — governed by the mantra “never complain, never explain” — the sort of personal revelations in Harry’s book would have been unthinkable. He describes his mental health struggles following the 1997 car accident that killed his mother, Princess Diana. He recounts a physical altercation with his older brother, Prince William, reveals how he lost his virginity and describes using cocaine and cannabis.
“Spare” is the latest effort by Harry and his wife, Meghan, to tell their own story after they quit royal life and moved to California in 2020, citing what they saw as the media’s racist treatment of Meghan and a lack of support from the palace.
In the ghostwritten memoir, Harry, 38, alleges that Camilla forged connections with the British press and traded information on her way to becoming queen consort, essentially feeding unflattering stories on Harry and Meghan to the press in exchange for better coverage of herself.
The allegations are particularly sensitive because of Camilla’s role in the acrimonious breakdown of Charles’ marriage to Diana. While many members of the public initially shunned Camilla, she has won fans by taking on a wide range of charitable activities and has been credited with helping Charles appear less stuffy and more in tune with modern Britain.
Daily Mail columnist Stephen Glover leapt to her defense, arguing that Harry was just thin-skinned.
“I daresay some members of the royal family have passed stories to the press through their courtiers over the years, but it is absurd and naïve to infer that this was part of an orchestrated attempt to destabilize Harry and Meghan,” he wrote. “Royals are not puppets of the press, since — if they have any sense — they realize they can be biffed as well as praised. The wise ones know how to take the rough with the smooth.”
But unlike Elizabeth, who famously issued a statement suggesting that “some recollections may vary” when confronted with racism allegations after Meghan’s interview with Oprah Winfrey in 2021, Buckingham Palace has responded to the first major crisis of Charles’ reign with silence.
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John Redman
Princess Diana of Wales smiles as she sits with her sons, Princes Harry, front, and William, on the steps of the Royal Palace on the island of Majorca, Spain, Aug. 9, 1987, where the British Royal family is on holiday with the Spanish King Juan Carlos and his family. (AP Photo/John Redman)
John Redman
Princess Diana of Wales smiles as she sits with her sons, Princes Harry, front, and William, on the steps of the Royal Palace on the island of Majorca, Spain, Aug. 9, 1987, where the British Royal family is on holiday with the Spanish King Juan Carlos and his family. (AP Photo/John Redman)
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Britain's Prince Charles and Princess Diana and their sons, Princes William, right, and Harry begin a cycle ride, June 1, 1989, around the island of Tresco, one of the Scilly Isles. The royal family was vacationing in the islands, located off the southwest tip of Britain. (AP Photo)
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Britain's Prince Charles and Princess Diana and their sons, Princes William, right, and Harry begin a cycle ride, June 1, 1989, around the island of Tresco, one of the Scilly Isles. The royal family was vacationing in the islands, located off the southwest tip of Britain. (AP Photo)
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Prince Harry, left, and prince William line up with their father, Prince Charles, in the classic Windsor stance with their hands behind their backs, at Kensington Palace, London, on June 29, 1989. They were waiting for Queen Beatrix of the Netherlands to arrive for a military Beating of the Retreat parade. (AP Photo/Kemp)
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Prince Harry, left, and prince William line up with their father, Prince Charles, in the classic Windsor stance with their hands behind their backs, at Kensington Palace, London, on June 29, 1989. They were waiting for Queen Beatrix of the Netherlands to arrive for a military Beating of the Retreat parade. (AP Photo/Kemp)
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David Brauchli
FILE - In this Friday, Sept. 5, 1997 file photo Britain's Prince Charles, right, accompanies his sons Prince William, left and Prince Harry after they arrived at Kensington Palace to view tributes left in memory of their mother Princess Diana in London. Prince Charles is sandwiched between generations, caught between his mother, a symbol of dignity and continuity who has reigned since 1952, and his two immensely popular sons, Prince William and Prince Harry, who have along with their wives come to symbolize the future of the world’s best known monarchy. (AP Photo/David Brauchli, File)
David Brauchli
FILE - In this Friday, Sept. 5, 1997 file photo Britain's Prince Charles, right, accompanies his sons Prince William, left and Prince Harry after they arrived at Kensington Palace to view tributes left in memory of their mother Princess Diana in London. Prince Charles is sandwiched between generations, caught between his mother, a symbol of dignity and continuity who has reigned since 1952, and his two immensely popular sons, Prince William and Prince Harry, who have along with their wives come to symbolize the future of the world’s best known monarchy. (AP Photo/David Brauchli, File)
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Jeff J. Mitchell
FILE - In this Sept. 6, 1997 file photo, from left, Britain's Prince Philip, Prince William, Earl Spencer, Prince Harry and Prince Charles walk outside Westminster Abbey during the funeral procession for Diana, Princess of Wales. Buckingham Palace officials say Prince Philip, the husband of Queen Elizabeth II, has died, it was announced on Friday, April 9, 2021. He was 99. Philip spent a month in hospital earlier this year before being released on March 16 to return to Windsor Castle. Philip, also known as the Duke of Edinburgh, married Elizabeth in 1947 and was the longest-serving consort in British history. (AP Photo/Jeff J. Mitchell, Pool, File)
Jeff J. Mitchell
FILE - In this Sept. 6, 1997 file photo, from left, Britain's Prince Philip, Prince William, Earl Spencer, Prince Harry and Prince Charles walk outside Westminster Abbey during the funeral procession for Diana, Princess of Wales. Buckingham Palace officials say Prince Philip, the husband of Queen Elizabeth II, has died, it was announced on Friday, April 9, 2021. He was 99. Philip spent a month in hospital earlier this year before being released on March 16 to return to Windsor Castle. Philip, also known as the Duke of Edinburgh, married Elizabeth in 1947 and was the longest-serving consort in British history. (AP Photo/Jeff J. Mitchell, Pool, File)
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Arthur Edwards
FILE - In this Monday, June 3, 2002 file photo, Britain's Prince William and Prince Harry enjoy the Party at the Palace concert in the gardens of Buckingham Palace, London, as the second concert to commemorate the Golden Jubilee of Britain's Queen Elizabeth II. Britain's royal officials said Thursday April 26, 2018, Prince Harry has asked elder brother Prince William to be best man at his wedding when he marries U.S. actress Meghan Markle at Windsor Castle on May 19. (AP Photo/Arthur Edwards/Pool)
Arthur Edwards
FILE - In this Monday, June 3, 2002 file photo, Britain's Prince William and Prince Harry enjoy the Party at the Palace concert in the gardens of Buckingham Palace, London, as the second concert to commemorate the Golden Jubilee of Britain's Queen Elizabeth II. Britain's royal officials said Thursday April 26, 2018, Prince Harry has asked elder brother Prince William to be best man at his wedding when he marries U.S. actress Meghan Markle at Windsor Castle on May 19. (AP Photo/Arthur Edwards/Pool)
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Lefteris Pitarakis
FILE - In this Wednesday April 12, 2006 file photo, Britain's Prince William, left, and Prince Harry attend The Sovereign's Parade at the Royal Military Academy at Sandhurst, England. Britain's royal officials said Thursday April 26, 2018, Prince Harry has asked elder brother Prince William to be best man at his wedding when he marries U.S. actress Meghan Markle at Windsor Castle on May 19. (AP Photo/Lefteris Pitarakis, File)
Lefteris Pitarakis
FILE - In this Wednesday April 12, 2006 file photo, Britain's Prince William, left, and Prince Harry attend The Sovereign's Parade at the Royal Military Academy at Sandhurst, England. Britain's royal officials said Thursday April 26, 2018, Prince Harry has asked elder brother Prince William to be best man at his wedding when he marries U.S. actress Meghan Markle at Windsor Castle on May 19. (AP Photo/Lefteris Pitarakis, File)
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Kirsty Wigglesworth
FILE - In this June 18, 2009 file photo, Britain's Prince William, left, and Prince Harry pose during a photocall at the Royal Air Force base at Shawbury, England. Military service is a tradition for the men of Britain's royal family, but combat has been off-limits for the next in line of succession. (AP Photo/Kirsty Wigglesworth, File)
Kirsty Wigglesworth
FILE - In this June 18, 2009 file photo, Britain's Prince William, left, and Prince Harry pose during a photocall at the Royal Air Force base at Shawbury, England. Military service is a tradition for the men of Britain's royal family, but combat has been off-limits for the next in line of succession. (AP Photo/Kirsty Wigglesworth, File)
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ARTHUR EDWARDS / THE SUN
Britain's Princes William, left, and Harry talk together at the opening of a fountain built in memory of their mother, the late Princess of Wales, in London's Hyde Park, Tuesday July 6, 2004. The 3.6 pound million creation at the side of the Serpentine has been surrounded by controversy - facing delays and over-running its budget by 600,000 pound. The Princess died in a car crash in Paris in August 1997.(AP Photo/Arthur Edwards, The Sun, pool)
ARTHUR EDWARDS / THE SUN
Britain's Princes William, left, and Harry talk together at the opening of a fountain built in memory of their mother, the late Princess of Wales, in London's Hyde Park, Tuesday July 6, 2004. The 3.6 pound million creation at the side of the Serpentine has been surrounded by controversy - facing delays and over-running its budget by 600,000 pound. The Princess died in a car crash in Paris in August 1997.(AP Photo/Arthur Edwards, The Sun, pool)
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ANDREW PARSONS
Prince William, left, and his brother Prince Harry, pose with young particpants before taking part in the Sport Relief London Mile, Saturday July 10, 2004. Prince Harry was prevented from running by an injured knee in training. More than 70,000 people in Britain have signed up to run a mile for charity at 144 official events to raise money to tackle poverty and help disadvantaged people in the UK and abroad in an event organised by Comic Relief and BBC Sport. A five hour television special featuring stars of sport and screen will also air Saturday.. (AP Photo/ Andrew Parsons, Pool)
ANDREW PARSONS
Prince William, left, and his brother Prince Harry, pose with young particpants before taking part in the Sport Relief London Mile, Saturday July 10, 2004. Prince Harry was prevented from running by an injured knee in training. More than 70,000 people in Britain have signed up to run a mile for charity at 144 official events to raise money to tackle poverty and help disadvantaged people in the UK and abroad in an event organised by Comic Relief and BBC Sport. A five hour television special featuring stars of sport and screen will also air Saturday.. (AP Photo/ Andrew Parsons, Pool)
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Jerome Delay
Britain's Prince William, right, and Prince Harry pose for photographers on the eve of the start of the Enduro Africa charity ride in Port Edward, South Africa, Friday Oct. 17, 2008. The two heirs to the British throne will compete in the week long motorcycle challenge, and will raise money for UNICEF, the Nelson Mandela Children’s Fund and the charity Sentebale, supporting orphans and vulnerable children in Lesotho, founded by Prince Harry. (AP Photo/Jerome Delay, pool)
Jerome Delay
Britain's Prince William, right, and Prince Harry pose for photographers on the eve of the start of the Enduro Africa charity ride in Port Edward, South Africa, Friday Oct. 17, 2008. The two heirs to the British throne will compete in the week long motorcycle challenge, and will raise money for UNICEF, the Nelson Mandela Children’s Fund and the charity Sentebale, supporting orphans and vulnerable children in Lesotho, founded by Prince Harry. (AP Photo/Jerome Delay, pool)
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Shayne Robinson
FILE - In this Tuesday, June 15, 2010 file photo, Britain's Princes William, right and Prince Harry pose with an African Rock Python at the Mokolodi nature reserve near Gaborone, Botswana. Britain's royal officials said Thursday April 26, 2018, Prince Harry has asked elder brother Prince William to be best man at his wedding when he marries U.S. actress Meghan Markle at Windsor Castle on May 19.(AP Photo/Shayne Robinson, File)
Shayne Robinson
FILE - In this Tuesday, June 15, 2010 file photo, Britain's Princes William, right and Prince Harry pose with an African Rock Python at the Mokolodi nature reserve near Gaborone, Botswana. Britain's royal officials said Thursday April 26, 2018, Prince Harry has asked elder brother Prince William to be best man at his wedding when he marries U.S. actress Meghan Markle at Windsor Castle on May 19.(AP Photo/Shayne Robinson, File)
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Alastair Grant
Britain's Prince William, left, and his best man Britain's Prince Harry arrive at Westminster Abbey at the Royal Wedding in London Friday, April, 29, 2011. (AP Photo/Alastair Grant)
Alastair Grant
Britain's Prince William, left, and his best man Britain's Prince Harry arrive at Westminster Abbey at the Royal Wedding in London Friday, April, 29, 2011. (AP Photo/Alastair Grant)
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Kirsty Wigglesworth
FILE - In this Sunday Nov. 8, 2015 file photo, Britain's Prince William, right, and Prince Harry attend the Remembrance Sunday ceremony at the Cenotaph in London. Senior royals must wear civilian clothes to Prince Philip’s funeral, defusing potential tensions over who would be allowed to don military uniforms. Queen Elizabeth II's decision means Prince Harry won’t risk being the only member of the royal family not in uniform during the funeral on Saturday April 17, 2021 for his grandfather, who died last week at the age of 99. (AP Photo/Kirsty Wigglesworth, File)
Kirsty Wigglesworth
FILE - In this Sunday Nov. 8, 2015 file photo, Britain's Prince William, right, and Prince Harry attend the Remembrance Sunday ceremony at the Cenotaph in London. Senior royals must wear civilian clothes to Prince Philip’s funeral, defusing potential tensions over who would be allowed to don military uniforms. Queen Elizabeth II's decision means Prince Harry won’t risk being the only member of the royal family not in uniform during the funeral on Saturday April 17, 2021 for his grandfather, who died last week at the age of 99. (AP Photo/Kirsty Wigglesworth, File)
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Frank Augstein
FILE - In this file photo dated Friday, May 18, 2018, Britain's Prince William, right, and Prince Harry return to Windsor Castle after greeting crowds in Windsor, England. Prince Harry will attend the funeral for Prince Philip on Saturday April 17, and many observers believe that the funeral will provide an ideal opportunity for “The Firm” to show a united front to the world and for the brothers to smooth over tensions.(AP Photo/Frank Augstein, FILE)
Frank Augstein
FILE - In this file photo dated Friday, May 18, 2018, Britain's Prince William, right, and Prince Harry return to Windsor Castle after greeting crowds in Windsor, England. Prince Harry will attend the funeral for Prince Philip on Saturday April 17, and many observers believe that the funeral will provide an ideal opportunity for “The Firm” to show a united front to the world and for the brothers to smooth over tensions.(AP Photo/Frank Augstein, FILE)
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Matt Dunham
FILE - In this file photo dated Tuesday, July 10, 2018, Britain's Queen Elizabeth II, and from left, Meghan the Duchess of Sussex, Prince Harry, Prince William and Kate the Duchess of Cambridge, watch as Royal Air Force aircraft pass over Buckingham Palace in London. Prince Harry will attend the funeral for Prince Philip on Saturday April 17, the first time that Harry will come face to face with the royal family since he and his wife Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, stepped away from royal duties last March and moved to California with their young son, Archie.(AP Photo/Matt Dunham, FILE)
Matt Dunham
FILE - In this file photo dated Tuesday, July 10, 2018, Britain's Queen Elizabeth II, and from left, Meghan the Duchess of Sussex, Prince Harry, Prince William and Kate the Duchess of Cambridge, watch as Royal Air Force aircraft pass over Buckingham Palace in London. Prince Harry will attend the funeral for Prince Philip on Saturday April 17, the first time that Harry will come face to face with the royal family since he and his wife Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, stepped away from royal duties last March and moved to California with their young son, Archie.(AP Photo/Matt Dunham, FILE)
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Alastair Grant
FILE - In this file photo dated Sunday, Feb. 5, 2017, Britain's Prince Harry, right, races to the line against Prince William, and Kate, the Duchess of Cambridge, left, during a training event to promote their charity Heads Together, at the Queen Elizabeth II Park in London. Many observers believe that the upcoming funeral for Prince Philip, on Saturday April 17, 2021, will provide an ideal opportunity for the brothers to smooth over tensions.(AP Photo/Alastair Grant, Pool)
Alastair Grant
FILE - In this file photo dated Sunday, Feb. 5, 2017, Britain's Prince Harry, right, races to the line against Prince William, and Kate, the Duchess of Cambridge, left, during a training event to promote their charity Heads Together, at the Queen Elizabeth II Park in London. Many observers believe that the upcoming funeral for Prince Philip, on Saturday April 17, 2021, will provide an ideal opportunity for the brothers to smooth over tensions.(AP Photo/Alastair Grant, Pool)
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Alastair Grant
FILE - In this file photo dated Saturday, May 19, 2018, Britain's Prince Harry, left, arrives with his best man Prince William for his wedding ceremony to Meghan Markle at St. George's Chapel in Windsor Castle in Windsor, England. When Prince Harry attends Prince Philip’s funeral on Saturday April 17, many be watching for signs of reconciliation between Prince Harry and his family, especially with his elder brother Prince William. (AP Photo/Alastair Grant, FILE)
Alastair Grant
FILE - In this file photo dated Saturday, May 19, 2018, Britain's Prince Harry, left, arrives with his best man Prince William for his wedding ceremony to Meghan Markle at St. George's Chapel in Windsor Castle in Windsor, England. When Prince Harry attends Prince Philip’s funeral on Saturday April 17, many be watching for signs of reconciliation between Prince Harry and his family, especially with his elder brother Prince William. (AP Photo/Alastair Grant, FILE)
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Frank Augstein
FILE - In this Tuesday, Dec. 25, 2018 file photo, with from left, Britain's Prince William, Kate Duchess of Cambridge, Meghan Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, arrive to attend the Christmas day service at St Mary Magdalene Church in Sandringham, England. Prince Harry will attend the funeral for Prince Philip on Saturday April 17, the first time that Harry will come face to face with the royal family since he and his wife Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, stepped away from royal duties last March and moved to California.(AP Photo/Frank Augstein, file)
Frank Augstein
FILE - In this Tuesday, Dec. 25, 2018 file photo, with from left, Britain's Prince William, Kate Duchess of Cambridge, Meghan Duchess of Sussex and Prince Harry, arrive to attend the Christmas day service at St Mary Magdalene Church in Sandringham, England. Prince Harry will attend the funeral for Prince Philip on Saturday April 17, the first time that Harry will come face to face with the royal family since he and his wife Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, stepped away from royal duties last March and moved to California.(AP Photo/Frank Augstein, file)
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Dominic Lipinski
Prince Harry, left, and Prince William stand together during the unveiling of a statue they commissioned of their mother Princess Diana, on what would have been her 60th birthday, in the Sunken Garden at Kensington Palace, London, Thursday July 1, 2021. (Dominic Lipinski /Pool Photo via AP, File)
Dominic Lipinski
Prince Harry, left, and Prince William stand together during the unveiling of a statue they commissioned of their mother Princess Diana, on what would have been her 60th birthday, in the Sunken Garden at Kensington Palace, London, Thursday July 1, 2021. (Dominic Lipinski /Pool Photo via AP, File)
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Kirsty O'Connor
FILE - From left, Britain's Prince William, Prince of Wales, Kate, Princess of Wales, Prince Harry and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex meet members of the public at Windsor Castle, following the death of Queen Elizabeth II on Thursday, in Windsor, England, Saturday, Sept. 10, 2022. (Kirsty O'Connor/Pool Photo via AP, Fil)
Kirsty O'Connor
FILE - From left, Britain's Prince William, Prince of Wales, Kate, Princess of Wales, Prince Harry and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex meet members of the public at Windsor Castle, following the death of Queen Elizabeth II on Thursday, in Windsor, England, Saturday, Sept. 10, 2022. (Kirsty O'Connor/Pool Photo via AP, Fil)
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Jon Super
Prince Harry and Prince William, left, follow the hearse with the coffin of Queen Elizabeth II moving towards St. George's Chapel at the Windsor Castle, in Windsor, England, Monday Sept. 19, 2022. (AP Photo/Jon Super, Pool)
Jon Super
Prince Harry and Prince William, left, follow the hearse with the coffin of Queen Elizabeth II moving towards St. George's Chapel at the Windsor Castle, in Windsor, England, Monday Sept. 19, 2022. (AP Photo/Jon Super, Pool)